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เราแค่อยากให้เค้า เป็นคนที่ยิ้มได้ในทุกสถานการณ์
เป็นคนที่มองวิกฤติให้เป็นโอกาส
เป็นคนที่ยอมรับความแตกต่าง ใจกว้างต่อสรรพสิ่ง

เราแค่อยากให้ลูกเราเป็นคนดีที่มีที่อยู่ในสังคม...
เราแค่อยากให้ลูกเรารู้จักมีจิตใจที่สงบและมีความสุขกับทางที่เค้าเลือกเดิน

เรามีหน้าที่ ค้นหาศักยภาพและตัวตนของเค้า
ดึงมันออกมา ทำให้เค้าเป็นเค้าที่ดีที่สุด....
ไม่ใช่ให้เค้าเป็นในสิ่งที่เรา "อยากให้เป็น"....

นี่คือ ความตั้งใจของเรา... ^^

วันอาทิตย์ที่ 23 พฤษภาคม พ.ศ. 2553

12 week of pregnancy check up

Today I have an appointment with my doctor again as she wanted to ultrasound my 12-week baby.

I was excited again at night as every time I come to see the doctor to check up. What was on my mind was how much the baby was growing and what's the progress?

I love untrasound as it's the time I can see my baby growing and see what's he/she is doing inside my belly as my pregnancy is still early, so I still can't feel it quite a lot. However, I will try to spare my busy time to speak and play with my Merry (I call it "Merry" right now as it has brough happiness to me. I will give another name again when I know the sex). Although I still can't feel its movement, I know that it can perceive my love and care.

At night, if I'm not too sleepy, I will tell a story for my Merry. I pick a stroy from an English book my parents bought for me when I was so young but I didn't read it seriously until now. Wow, it's such amazing feeling that now I use the stuffs since I was young with my baby...

Ok...let's continue what's happening at the check-up at the medical center.

Today, my baby is 7 cm in length (wow...it has grown another 4 cm within about 3 weeks) and now my weight is about 43 kgs(gain 1 kg within 3 week too, but I'm still thin though). However, the doctor didn't mention that I was too thin or not.

In the ultrasound room, my younger sister and her boyfriend were with me. We're so happy and glad to see my baby moving.

At first, it was still but another few minutes, it began to move :).
As it's not 4-D untrasound machine, although the doctor was trying to explain me about the part of its body we're watching through the monitor, I still couldn't see parts of my baby quite well, but my sister did.

It's amazing to see the fingers of it so clearly....wow...
Moreover, it seemed to move around a lottttt, LoL. It tried to swim away from where my doctor try to get the picture, haha. It's like playing hide-and-seek. It's so active :-)...

So I asked the doctor that would it go to sleep for some time? My doctor said yes, surely.

It was such a pretty and precious moment to see my baby...
Further than moving quite a lot, it also opened the little lip. The doctor explained that "see, your baby was crying.". I couldn't help smiling out cheerfully... wow...was that it trying to sing a song or something? ^^ As I always listen to music a lot and sing a song when I am showering. I was so happy to see the little mouth open...

More than that, it seemed to love excercising a lot as it was moving arms up and down all the time while doing the ultrasound.

The doctor also explained where its heart was and I saw the part of its body, it's pumped up and down. She also let me hear the voice of the pace of heart beat...

She said that there's no worry as the baby was healthy and strong. I just need to take care of my health.

The thalussamia result is negative...but I still have to check the Down's syndrome within 20-week time.

What the doctor analyzed from the picture of the baby, she said there was low risk of the syndrome but to be sure, I could check my blood to test this again.

Actually, I wanted to do that today but I was prescribed tetanus injection too.

I was afraid that my body couldn't accept both today and I still had time to check the Down's syndrome. So, I decided to take the injection first.

It was quite painful though, but for my baby...and the pain of the delivery must be much more...I can bear it...

Just only for my baby's safety and good health...I can do everything...

This makes me love my mom so much more...

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